The Line.

I’ve written about all of this before, and yet it’s still something that amazes me if we imagine through history.

You’re born into an environment that’s artificial beyond the natural challenges. Nowadays, natural challenges are rare, it’s humans we mostly have to worry about, those creatures like ourselves. They are like ourselves, remember that.

A little over 2,000 years ago, you might have been born into the wonderful life of being a peon – the odds are much better for that than what many written stories and movies suggest. Statistically, less people on the planet.

The peon could run away somewhere else and disappear, or move to the top of the mountain to avoid people only to have them show up asking for advice. That might have been a nice option for the hardy individuals.

Nobility, too, was born into – like wealth is born into today.

So let’s go further back. Let’s say your parents were hanging out with the crew drawing pictures of deer in the caves, your mother did a swish of the tail just so and… 9 months later you show up. Childbirth wasn’t very easy then for mother or child. Suddenly, you’re in a tribe, including that whacky guy who keeps wandering around chewing on poppies. What’s for dinner? What the tribe gets.

What the tribe gets. So that’s pretty much changed, hasn’t it? How often do you hear of a group of people born into a group working together? I know, in a perfect world we might call that family, but in a family the goals aren’t always aligned – unless it’s Disney. Everyone has their own thing going on.

What else?

If you go back far enough, the focus was on ‘staying alive because our environment will kill us’.

Slowly, we pushed back on that environment. Thousands of years later, nobody’s worried about the environment hurting us. It’s the other way around, but we’re more worried about all the civilization stuff that comes with it – paying bills and other things have become more important to use as individuals than worrying about the environment killing us – and us killing the environment that will kill us.

When did that happen? When did we cross that line? I wonder.

What Can You Do?

049 feeling gravitys pullThe world is full of people who see their own troubles in one way or the other. I see it more clearly in Trinidad and Tobago now, after years of drawing breath, but I’ve always seen it.

I’ve seen that listless look, the empty eyes, when people ask, “What can you do?” I’ve done it myself a few times when things were going in ways I did not expect or like – in ways I did not plan for, in ways that worked against my own goals.

The world is not always how we are told it would be. It’s almost never the way that we wished it would be. Broken dreams are made of these things.

And yet, rather than focusing on what we cannot do, we should focus on the things that we can do.

When you lose your job, you find another way to pay the bills.
When you lose someone you love, you find another way to exist.

You move on. The first part of moving on is accepting what has happened, the second part is assessing the situation, and the last part is to dare to keep pushing forward somehow.

Never ask, “What can you do?”

Always ask, “What can I do?”

That’s what you can do.

You’ll live a better life, and the world will be a better place for it.